LOVE - Undefined Definition

 I Love You … this sentence is heard many times and many wants hear it. In this we know particularly two words “I” and “You”. But the confusion is about the word ”LOVE”. Yaa, it is true that here are some extra ordinary talents present who claim that they can define Love. But think from your heart and also from mind is it possible to define it. I can say never. Because defining it bounds it in boundary and make it confined. Now this only statement can make you think that I am right. But at the same time, we know that Love is between two particular creatures, so this means it has some boundaries. Now you can say I am making you confuse. But this is not right, What I just want to make you notice here that you or I can’t define it completely and those who were or are or will define it, just try to make them understand what they feel when they are in love or define it from one perspective only.

So, what is its definition? My answer is NO. We or none can able to define it and can never be. In my terms, Love is the start of any feelings. Like, a new born baby laugh when her mother took her in arms or play with her, and we laugh when we like some we love someone. So, what comes first here is Love and then cry laugh anger etc. 

This also include hate to someone. Now it probably strikes your consciousness that how hate is a love. It sounds weird but it is not. Now consider you hate a creature of this world or any event. You start making notice how to avoid that creature and make all efforts to know the possibilities where you two get confronted. The same thing you do in love, don’t you. Ok, let say it is not right but when you continue same thing and once who somehow reach to that place where there are chances that you meet that creature but luckily you not met. You feel relaxed but at the same time a question comes in your mind that where that creature was present currently as according to you that creature need to be there where you are currently present.

This also understands in another way when you hate someone you not actually hate that person. At that moment, You Love his absence. Same in case of events, you just love when that event is not continued or you not become part of it.

You know Love has its own boundaries its own world. This only feel is not in boundaries of TIME. You say you left your ex-lover 3 years ago and may be in your memory that person is no more. Now start thinking are you really think the love between him and you. Never even if currently I ask about him you give me lots of reason to reject him and every reason you relate with love. Also, if you get in front of him you within very small time remember every Love moment. Because Love never vanishes and it always remain there. One forgets his lover not his love.  What we do just move on and start loving other with more love.

 Love is not easy to define and not easy to be with it. This not give you happiness, never. This makes you confident that you are happy even when you have nothing and even when you are nothing. This we try to imagine and it not simply about Love of boy and girl. This is for everyone and every type love.

 

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